Why did you adopt a Chinese child versus a child from your country?

Why did you adopt a Chinese child versus a child from your country?

So when it came to adoption, I went to my husband and I really have the desire in my heart to adopt I didn’t care where the child came from honestly I just wanted to adopt a child if I had that in my heart and I knew that was something that I wanted to do and when I talk to my husband the first thing we talked about his Foster to adopt and for him he felt that his heart wasn’t quite ready for that because he didn’t want a child to be taken away from him so we can rule that one out for that time.

And then we talked to a lot of social workers in our country in the United States and they were telling us if we adopted through the state the youngest child we would get is 6 unless they had a severe medical need like a trach or a more complicated medical needs is needed more interventions at least that’s what we were told. so what are the biggest factors that James had when it came to adopting that he was very comfortable with because our children were so young where the mindset came from and if our kids were if our kids were much older like if our youngest child was seven then he would have said 7 or younger just so that they kind of lined up in that ladder and we looked into adopting a newborn like a private adoption and we were told I don’t know if this is true or not but we were told that because we have three biological children so weird large family and I have absolutely no infertility would not be picked by a mother ready to go I guess I don’t know if any of that’s true but that just what we were told, all the information being told and all that information that we have you wanted a younger little one to match the age group that I talk to and when we looked we actually first wanted to adopt from Ethiopia that was where our hearts was that we were like we are adopting from Ethiopia and at that time Ethiopia adoption has been shut down so there was no way that that was going to happen requirements we talked to tons of people I talked to Angela from this gathered Nest I talked to tons of friends I talk to a lot of different different social workers and different people that worked at the adoption agencies and I said you know this is how long we’ve been married this is how many kids we have in our home cuz we already had a larger family three kids in her home so there was some countries that we are already excluded from and with all of that absolutely noChild with my baby like I felt it to my core is there any countries that you have I really got to reading is there any countries in Europe.

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